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You’re Not Crazy. You're Dealing with a Toxic Parent.

You’ve spent enough time surviving. It’s time to start healing.

Learn how from a therapist and boundaries coach who survived growing up with a narcissist mom.

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You’re Not Crazy.

You're Dealing with a Toxic Parent.

You’ve spent enough time surviving. It’s time to start healing.

Learn how from a therapist and boundaries coach who survived growing up with a narcissist mom.

SET BOUNDARIES WITH YOUR TOXIC PARENT →

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Setting Boundaries with a Parent You Suspect Has Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder feels impossible, but it's not. In less than an hour, I'll teach you my 3-step strategy for effectively setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. 

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how to set boundaries with a narcissistic parent

I know you’ve tried. 

You’ve said no to your parent, then laid awake spiraling at 2am wondering if you overreacted.

You’ve tried to hold your boundaries, and been made to feel like the villain.

It’s not that you haven’t tried hard enough. It’s that no one taught you how to protect your peace when the person harming you is your parent.

That’s why I built Confident Boundaries with Toxic Parents.

It's here to give you the tools and clarity you need to finally set boundaries that stick (instead of ones that get crushed by guilt and self-doubt).

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You're not broken.

You've just been trained to think that you are.

You were taught to manage your parent's emotions.
To anticipate the blowup.
To keep the peace, even when it broke you.

That's conditioning—not a personal flaw. And, I can't wait to help you break free from it.

I’m Torie Wiksell—a licensed therapist, boundaries coach, and a cycle breaker who grew up with a narcissist mom. I built Confident Boundaries to help you stop surviving and finally start healing. I can't wait to help you catch your breath and find the light at the end of the tunnel.

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You're not broken.

You've just been trained to think that you are.

You were taught to manage their emotions.
To anticipate the blowup.
To keep the peace, even when it broke you.

That's conditioning—not a personal flaw. And, I can't wait to help you break free from it.

I’m Torie Wiksell—a licensed therapist, boundaries coach, and someone who grew up with a narcissist mom. I built Confident Boundaries so you could stop surviving and finally start healing. I can't wait to help you catch your breath and find the light at the end of the tunnel.

LEARN MORE ABOUT TORIE →

Learn how to set boundaries that actually stick.

Confident Boundaries with Toxic Parents is the online boundaries course that walks you through how to handle the guilt, self-doubt, and chaos that have always made boundaries with your toxic parent feel impossible.
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You need a plan and a coach who gets it. 

When you’re done second-guessing everything and ready to change your relationship with guilt, clarity, and your parent for good, this is where you go next.

My 1:1 coaching services are available globally to cycle breakers who are ready for intensive, personalized support navigating their complicated family relationships.

We'll work together to map out exactly how to navigate your complicated family situation, hold boundaries, navigate pushback, and feel confident in your decisions—without burning out.

Let's Work Together ➔