You’re not too sensitive.
You’re not the problem.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
The Confident Boundaries Membership is your space protect your peace, stop doubting yourself, and finally set boundaries that stick without getting lost in a shame spiral.
This is where you get the tools, support, and community you need to break the toxic cycle for good.
JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP→What if healing didn’t have to feel so lonely?
→ What if you had a safe place to go after every difficult interaction?
→ What if you had a space where you’re understood, supported, and reassured that you’re not crazy?
→ What if you had scripts, strategies, and access to people who’ve been where you are?
GET STARTED NOW →
HERE'S the roadmap to your more peaceful life
(All of this is waiting for you inside the Membership right now)
Private 24/7 Community chat
A safe space to vent, process, and connect without judgment or having to over-explain your complicated family situation.
The Boundaries Helper GPT
Access to the AI-Tool trained to help you role play your boundaries and problem solve tricky family situations in real-time.
Boundaries Support + Q&A sessions
Join Torie for two 90-minute action-oriented, coaching-focused, and educational live Zoom calls each month.
Monthly Workshops
Deep dives into topics like guilt, gaslighting, flying monkeys, and navigating boundaries in real life.
Join the Supportive
Membership for Cycle Breakers with Toxic Parents.
And finally feel less alone on your cycle breaking journey.
Confident Boundaries Membership
$59/MONTH
Monthly Subscription. Cancel Anytime.
- Private community chat with fellow cycle breakers
- Boundary Helper GPT+ (AI support tool)
- One live educational workshop each month
- Two Action-Oriented Boundaries Support/Q&A Sessions each month
- Full access to the Confident Boundaries Member Library
Hi! I'm Torie Wiksell.
THERAPIST, COACH, & HOST OF THE PODCAST, YOU'RE NOT CRAZY.
I help the adult children of toxic and emotionally immature parents stop walking on eggshells and start healing.
In my 12+ years as a therapist, I’ve supported clients with personality disorders, family trauma, and complex relationship dynamics—and I’ve lived it too. I grew up with a narcissist mom and know how insidious it is.
It might feel impossible to break free from this cycle, but I promise you it's not. I’ve survived a dysfunctional family system, and I know you can survive yours too.
When you’re ready to do this, I’m ready to help.
You Don’t Have to Keep White Knuckling This On Your Own
I know firsthand how confusing and exhausting it is to be the cycle breaker in your family. You start to question your own sanity — and wonder if peace is even possible.
It is. And it starts here.
Join the membership, take a breath, and know: you’re not crazy, and you’re not alone anymore.
JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP →A Quick Note About Live Support Inside the Membership
The Confident Boundaries Membership includes two live, 90-minute Boundaries Support + Q&A sessions each month, designed to provide clear, action-oriented guidance around navigating complicated family dynamics. These sessions focus on feedback, coaching, and perspective on topics like setting and maintaining boundaries, managing contact decisions, and dealing with flying monkeys.
They are structured, educational, and clearly distinct from therapy processing groups, and are intended to complement (not replace) personal therapy. The rest of the membership centers on tools, education, and community support, creating a sustainable, clearly scoped space for ongoing growth.
