This membership is for adults with toxic parents who are ready to break the toxic cycle they grew up in and heal. If you're exhausted from the guilt, the gaslighting, and the never-ending push-pull dynamic—you’re in the right place.

The Confident Boundaries Membership was built on supporting adults with parents who have suspected narcissistic, borderline, or histrionic personality disorder and continues to focus on supporting this group of cycle breakers.

In all honesty- probably! Navigating a relationship with a toxic parent is hard. Trying to figure out how to deal with a toxic parent (who may have an unmanaged personality disorder) can feel impossible.  

Having access to a community of other people who get it, are on a similar journey to set boundaries and heal, and are cheering you on every step of the way can only help, right?

Absolutely! Many members are navigating low-contact or no-contact situations and still need support in managing guilt, triggers, grief, and rebuilding a new identity outside of the chaos.

These relationships are complicated, messy, and nuanced. And the people in this membership really understand that. 

No matter where you are in your own journey, if you desperately want to connect with other people who get it (ones you don't have to spend hours explaining the complicated backstory to) this is your place.

You'll get instant access to our private library of on-demand trainings, videos, and worksheets, two live group coaching calls with Torie each week, The Boundaries Helper GPT+, a live monthly workshop, and a supportive private community of people who truly get it.

Everything in here is designed to help you confidently set boundaries that actually stick—with support every step of the way.

Nope. You’re welcome to come just to listen. Many members find it incredibly validating and helpful to learn from others as they get coached through similar challenges.

Also- participation in the coaching calls is optional! Take what feels supportive and leave the rest.

Nope, never. To protect everyone’s privacy and create a space where people feel safe to share, the coaching calls are not recorded. 

This is completely self-paced. Some members show up to many of the live coaching sessions, others check in once a month or so to watch a video or read some of the posts. And most fluctuate based on what's going on in their life at the moment.

You get to choose how much you engage based on what you need—and that changes over time.

The membership is here so you can actively work on breaking the dysfunctional cycle you're in- sometimes that means being super active and sometimes that means taking a breather but knowing we're here.

No, while I am a therapist—this isn’t therapy or a substitute for therapy. But, we're super pro-therapy over here!

In the membership you'll find education, coaching, and community support. Many members use this space alongside their therapy to get more specific, targeted tools for navigating a toxic parent dynamic.

*Participating in the Confident Boundaries Membership does not create a therapist-client relationship between you and me (Torie Wiksell).

This membership is not appropriate for anyone who is personally diagnosed with histrionic, borderline, or narcissistic personality disorder.

This membership is also not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, this membership is not appropriate for you.

If you are in crisis, please contact a licensed therapist near you or seek support through the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing or texting: 988.

To protect the safety and integrity of our members, all sales are final once access is granted. Please consider this carefully before enrolling.

The Confident Boundaries Membership is a private, confidential community. Once someone joins, they immediately gain access to sensitive materials, workshops, and peer discussions.

A no-refund policy helps keep the space safe for genuine cycle breakers and discourage people who this space is not intended for from joining.

*You may cancel your membership at any time by logging into your account. Please note- cancelling will prevent future charges from occurring if done at least 48 hours prior to your next billing cycle.

**If you cancel, you will retain access through the end of your billing cycle. No refunds will be issued for charges already processed.

Yes! Access to the Membership through the Confident Boundaries App is included. You can access everything in the Member Library, The Boundaries Helper GPT+, and the private community chat right from your phone.

Yes— although I recommend downloading the app to have quick access to The Boundaries Helper GPT+ and the community chat feature, you can also use a computer to access all of the resources in the membership.