This membership is for the adult children of parents with borderline or narcissistic traits who are ready to stop questioning themselves and start healing. If you're exhausted from the guilt, the gaslighting, and the never-ending push-pull dynamic—you’re in the right place.

In all honesty- probably! Navigating a relationship with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder as an adult is challenging. And, there's A LOT of bad advice out there! 

Having access to a community of other people who get it, are on a similar journey to set boundaries and heal, and are cheering you on every step of the way can only help, right?

Plus, with the resources in this membership you can finally stop googling and searching reddit for help and get advice from someone who teaches these concepts for a living (me, Torie!)

Absolutely. Many members are navigating low-contact or no-contact situations and still need support in managing guilt, triggers, grief, and rebuilding a new identity outside of the chaos.

These relationships are complicated, messy, and nuanced. And the people in this membership really understand that. 

No matter where you are in your own journey, if you desperately want to connect with other people who get it (ones you don't have to spend hours explaining the complicated backstory to) this is your place.

You'll get instant access to our private library of on-demand trainings, videos, and worksheets, two live group coaching calls each week, bonus podcast episodes, a monthly workshop, and a supportive private community of people who truly get it. Everything is designed to help you confidently set boundaries that actually stick—with support every step of the way.

Nope. You’re welcome to come just to listen. Many members find it incredibly validating and helpful to learn from others as they get coached through similar challenges.

Nope. To protect everyone’s privacy and create a space where people feel safe to share, the coaching calls are not recorded. What’s said in the room stays in the room.

This is completely self-paced. Some members show up to most live coaching sessions, others check in a few times a month to watch a video or read some of the posts. You get to choose how much you engage based on what you need—and what is most helpful for you in that moment.

The membership is here so you can actively work on breaking the dysfunctional cycle your in- sometimes that means being super active and sometimes that means taking a breather.

No, while I am a therapist—this isn’t therapy. It’s education, coaching, and community support. Many members use this space alongside their therapy to get more specific, targeted tools for navigating a toxic parent dynamic.

*Participating in the Confident Boundaries Membership does not create a therapist-client relationship between you and me (Torie Wiksell).

This membership is not appropriate for anyone who is personally diagnosed with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder.

This membership is also not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, this membership is not appropriate for you.

If you are in crisis, please contact a licensed therapist near you or seek support through the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing or texting: 988.

I truly believe in this membership and the resources I provide in it. I have taught so many people like you how to successfully set boundaries with their BPD and NPD parents or go no-contact throughout the years and am bringing that knowledge and experience to the Confident Boundaries Membership. I am confident you will find value in the information and support provided here.

However, if you decide within the first 14 days of signing up that this membership is not for you, just send me an email at [email protected] and I’ll refund the price of your membership- no strings attached.

That’s how much I believe in the Confident Boundaries Membership!